When building tests, Meson will now look for system dependencies and use
them if found. Otherwise, it will check if the submodules are cloned and
create a dependency object wrapping the include path of each external
dependency (this breaks Meson's sandbox, but the previous approach did
too). This also allows passing actual dependencies to the various build
targets instead of include paths (a bit more idiomatic).
I've also made it possible to skip the tl-optional tests when the lib is
not found, so that it is still possible to run tests even from a
tarball (i.e. no git checkout)
also:
- added `date_time` converting constructors from `date` and `time`
- added `is_key<>` and is_key_or_convertible<>` metafunctions
- exposed `TOML_NAMESPACE_START` and `TOML_NAMESPACE_END` macros to help with ADL specialization scenarios
- added encoder and decoder for `toml-test` (closes#125)
