diff --git a/QSB/Events/QSBEvent.cs b/QSB/Events/QSBEvent.cs
index 5194bf7c..ad4f0243 100644
--- a/QSB/Events/QSBEvent.cs
+++ b/QSB/Events/QSBEvent.cs
@@ -34,19 +34,26 @@ namespace QSB.Events
 
 		public abstract bool RequireWorldObjectsReady { get; }
 
-		public void SendEvent(T message)
-		{
-			message.FromId = QSBPlayerManager.LocalPlayerId;
-			QSBCore.UnityEvents.RunWhen(
-				() => PlayerTransformSync.LocalInstance != null,
-				() => _eventHandler.SendToServer(message));
-		}
+		/// used to force set ForId for every sent event
+		protected static uint ForIdOverride = uint.MaxValue;
+
+		public void SendEvent(T message) => QSBCore.UnityEvents.RunWhen(
+			() => PlayerTransformSync.LocalInstance != null,
+			() =>
+			{
+				message.FromId = LocalPlayerId;
+				if (ForIdOverride != uint.MaxValue)
+				{
+					message.ForId = ForIdOverride;
+				}
+				_eventHandler.SendToServer(message);
+			});
 
 		/// <summary>
-		/// Checks whether the message should be processed by the executing client/server.
+		/// Checks whether the message should be processed by the executing client.
 		/// </summary>
 		/// <returns>True if the message should be processed.</returns>
-		public virtual bool CheckMessage(bool isServer, T message)
+		public virtual bool CheckMessage(T message)
 			=> !RequireWorldObjectsReady || WorldObjectManager.AllObjectsReady;
 
 		private void OnReceive(bool isServer, T message)
@@ -59,18 +66,24 @@ namespace QSB.Events
 			 * hub for all events.
 			 */
 
-			if (!CheckMessage(isServer, message))
-			{
-				return;
-			}
-
 			if (isServer)
 			{
-				_eventHandler.SendToAll(message);
+				if (message.OnlySendToHost)
+				{
+					_eventHandler.SendToHost(message);
+				}
+				else if (message.ForId != uint.MaxValue)
+				{
+					_eventHandler.SendTo(message.ForId, message);
+				}
+				else
+				{
+					_eventHandler.SendToAll(message);
+				}
 				return;
 			}
 
-			if (message.OnlySendToHost && !QSBCore.IsHost)
+			if (!CheckMessage(message))
 			{
 				return;
 			}
@@ -87,8 +100,8 @@ namespace QSB.Events
 
 				if (!player.IsReady
 					&& player.PlayerId != LocalPlayerId
-					&& (player.State is ClientState.AliveInSolarSystem or ClientState.AliveInEye or ClientState.DeadInSolarSystem)
-					&& (message is not PlayerInformationEvent or PlayerReadyEvent))
+					&& player.State is ClientState.AliveInSolarSystem or ClientState.AliveInEye or ClientState.DeadInSolarSystem
+					&& this is not PlayerInformationEvent or PlayerReadyEvent)
 				{
 					DebugLog.ToConsole($"Warning - Got message from player {message.FromId}, but they were not ready. Asking for state resync, just in case.", MessageType.Warning);
 					QSBEventManager.FireEvent(EventNames.QSBRequestStateResync);
@@ -97,14 +110,14 @@ namespace QSB.Events
 
 			try
 			{
-				if (message.FromId == QSBPlayerManager.LocalPlayerId ||
-				QSBPlayerManager.IsBelongingToLocalPlayer(message.FromId))
+				if (QSBPlayerManager.IsBelongingToLocalPlayer(message.FromId))
 				{
 					OnReceiveLocal(QSBCore.IsHost, message);
-					return;
 				}
-
-				OnReceiveRemote(QSBCore.IsHost, message);
+				else
+				{
+					OnReceiveRemote(QSBCore.IsHost, message);
+				}
 			}
 			catch (Exception ex)
 			{
diff --git a/QSB/Messaging/MessageHandler.cs b/QSB/Messaging/MessageHandler.cs
index a66bf53b..545f6607 100644
--- a/QSB/Messaging/MessageHandler.cs
+++ b/QSB/Messaging/MessageHandler.cs
@@ -1,5 +1,4 @@
-using QSB.Events;
-using QSB.Utility;
+using QSB.Utility;
 using QuantumUNET;
 using QuantumUNET.Components;
 using QuantumUNET.Messages;
@@ -58,6 +57,32 @@ namespace QSB.Messaging
 			QNetworkServer.SendToAll(_eventType, message);
 		}
 
+		public void SendToHost(T message)
+		{
+			if (!QSBNetworkManager.Instance.IsReady)
+			{
+				return;
+			}
+
+			QNetworkServer.SendToClient(0, _eventType, message);
+		}
+
+		public void SendTo(uint id, T message)
+		{
+			if (!QSBNetworkManager.Instance.IsReady)
+			{
+				return;
+			}
+
+			var conn = QNetworkServer.connections.FirstOrDefault(x => x.GetPlayerId() == id);
+			if (conn == null)
+			{
+				DebugLog.ToConsole($"SendTo unknown player! id: {id}, message: {message.GetType().Name}", OWML.Common.MessageType.Error);
+				return;
+			}
+			QNetworkServer.SendToClient(conn.connectionId, _eventType, message);
+		}
+
 		public void SendToServer(T message)
 		{
 			if (!QSBNetworkManager.Instance.IsReady)
diff --git a/QSB/Messaging/PlayerMessage.cs b/QSB/Messaging/PlayerMessage.cs
index dc22a948..b14eb553 100644
--- a/QSB/Messaging/PlayerMessage.cs
+++ b/QSB/Messaging/PlayerMessage.cs
@@ -16,16 +16,27 @@ namespace QSB.Messaging
 		public uint AboutId { get; set; }
 
 		/// <summary>
-		/// If true, only send this message to the host of the current session 
+		/// If true, only send this message to the host of the current session
 		/// (OnReceiveLocal/Remote is not called on any other client)
 		/// </summary>
 		public bool OnlySendToHost { get; set; }
 
+		/// <summary>
+		/// The Player ID that this message is for.
+		/// By default, this is uint.MaxValue,
+		/// which means this is ignored and the message is sent to all clients
+		/// </summary>
+		public uint ForId { get; set; } = uint.MaxValue;
+
 		public override void Deserialize(QNetworkReader reader)
 		{
 			FromId = reader.ReadUInt32();
 			AboutId = reader.ReadUInt32();
 			OnlySendToHost = reader.ReadBoolean();
+			if (!OnlySendToHost)
+			{
+				reader.ReadUInt32();
+			}
 		}
 
 		public override void Serialize(QNetworkWriter writer)
@@ -33,6 +44,10 @@ namespace QSB.Messaging
 			writer.Write(FromId);
 			writer.Write(AboutId);
 			writer.Write(OnlySendToHost);
+			if (!OnlySendToHost)
+			{
+				writer.Write(ForId);
+			}
 		}
 	}
-}
\ No newline at end of file
+}
diff --git a/QSB/Player/Events/RequestStateResyncEvent.cs b/QSB/Player/Events/RequestStateResyncEvent.cs
index ab1f32f1..26750419 100644
--- a/QSB/Player/Events/RequestStateResyncEvent.cs
+++ b/QSB/Player/Events/RequestStateResyncEvent.cs
@@ -30,20 +30,31 @@ namespace QSB.Player.Events
 
 		public override void OnReceiveRemote(bool isHost, PlayerMessage message)
 		{
-			// if host, send worldobject and server states
-
-			if (isHost)
+			// send response only to the requesting client
+			ForIdOverride = message.FromId;
+			try
 			{
-				QSBEventManager.FireEvent(EventNames.QSBServerState, ServerStateManager.Instance.GetServerState());
-				QSBEventManager.FireEvent(EventNames.QSBPlayerInformation);
+				// if host, send worldobject and server states
+				if (isHost)
+				{
+					QSBEventManager.FireEvent(EventNames.QSBServerState, ServerStateManager.Instance.GetServerState());
+					QSBEventManager.FireEvent(EventNames.QSBPlayerInformation);
 
-				SendWorldObjectInfo();
-
-				return;
+					if (WorldObjectManager.AllObjectsReady)
+					{
+						SendWorldObjectInfo();
+					}
+				}
+				// if client, send player and client states
+				else
+				{
+					QSBEventManager.FireEvent(EventNames.QSBPlayerInformation);
+				}
+			}
+			finally
+			{
+				ForIdOverride = uint.MaxValue;
 			}
-
-			// if client, send player and client states
-			QSBEventManager.FireEvent(EventNames.QSBPlayerInformation);
 		}
 
 		private void SendWorldObjectInfo()
diff --git a/QSB/QuantumSync/Events/QuantumAuthorityEvent.cs b/QSB/QuantumSync/Events/QuantumAuthorityEvent.cs
index c1749fb2..a52e02d5 100644
--- a/QSB/QuantumSync/Events/QuantumAuthorityEvent.cs
+++ b/QSB/QuantumSync/Events/QuantumAuthorityEvent.cs
@@ -20,9 +20,9 @@ namespace QSB.QuantumSync.Events
 			AuthorityOwner = authorityOwner
 		};
 
-		public override bool CheckMessage(bool isServer, QuantumAuthorityMessage message)
+		public override bool CheckMessage(QuantumAuthorityMessage message)
 		{
-			if (!base.CheckMessage(isServer, message))
+			if (!base.CheckMessage(message))
 			{
 				return false;
 			}